Caring For Your Wife (Hadith No. 445)


Volume 1, Book 8, Number 445:

Narrated ‘Aisha:

Once I saw Allah’s Apostle at the door of my house while some Ethiopians were playing in the mosque (displaying their skill with spears). Allah’s Apostle was screening me with his Rida’ so as to enable me to see their display.
(‘Urwa said that ‘Aisha said, “I saw the Prophet, and the Ethiopians were playing with their spears.”)

One word: aww! :)

Also, the story doesn’t end here. Other narrations tell us that ‘Aisha (RA) was resting her head on Prophet (SAW)’s shoulder. Prophet (SAW) kept standing so ‘Aisha could enjoy the display fully. He once asked her if she was done, and she replied with no. He kept standing there without a word. Only when ‘Aisha felt tired and had enough, did the Prophet (SAW) move from his place.

That’s the example Prophet (SAW) left for the husbands of his Ummah. He treated his wives with such care and love that none of today’s ‘perfect couples’ stand a chance in comparison with him.

O followers of the Prophet (SAW), try following him for real. Men, treat your wives with respect, love and kindness. Women, narrate this Hadith to your sons and brothers [or husbands ;) ] so they can treat their wives nicely too. InshaAllah. :)


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Posted on August 17, 2011, in iLook and tagged , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 12 Comments.

  1. ۞۩۞۩۩۞۩۩۞۩۩۞۩۩۞۩۩۞۩۩۞۩۩۞
    ۞ *•. ¸.•* بِسْمِ اللهِ الْرَّحْمَنِ الْرَّحِيمِ •¸ * •۞
    ۞ قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ ۞ اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ ۞ لَمْ * •۞
    ۞ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ ۞ وَلَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ * •۞

  2. Wonderful hadith. Well anything that the Prophet (saw) said was the truth and bueatiful. We should learn his ways. I see men today, especially in pakistan….. Treat their wives like they just do work. I see no love. I mean they dont do anything wrong but they do nothing extra. Take them out once a week, cook for them, little things. We need to learn from the Rasool (saw).

  3. Aaawe this is too sweet . SubhanAllah . ya Allah bless our Muslim brothers to follow the sunnahs of the Prophet (s.a.w) in shaa Allah so we muslimahs may be blessed with righteous husbands . .:) <3

  4. If I’m right I had read somewhere about a Hadith mentioning, Allah likes it when the husband and wife enjoy’s their company and have fun. May be someone can refer that Hadith

    • Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: ‘The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: “there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife.”‘ The companions asked: ‘O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?” He (saws) said: “Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded.”

      Related by Ahmad and Muslim.

  5. بنتِ محمد | Bint Mohammad

    Reblogged this on Quran and Sunnah.

  6. Muhammad haider Jafri

    Omer… ur work and devotion for this site (and spread of islam) is unheard of in our age group… u have so much passion to serve the religion that only a few blessed ones do. i wish u all the best in this noble work of The Lord.

    • Wow I checked this comment because I was like is it the same Haider?! lol And bro it’s not ME who posts all these ahadith! It’s sis Yumna! She’s the one who regularly updates the blog. May Allah bless her and help her continue this noble work! I just post a poem after weeks! But jazakAllah khayr! :) Good to know you’re following :D

  7. SubhaanALLAH .. prophet ﷺ sunnah is simple and beautiful! =]

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