A Unique Case (Ahadith 1151 – 1152)
Bismillah.
Volume 2, Book 23, Number 452:
Narrated Ibn ‘Umar:
The Prophet looked at the people of the well (the well in which the bodies of the pagans killed in the Battle of Badr were thrown) and said, “Have you found true what your Lord promised you?” Somebody said to him, “You are addressing dead people.” He replied, “You do not hear better than they but they cannot reply.”
Volume 2, Book 23, Number 453:
Narrated ‘Aisha:
The Prophet said, “They now realize that what I used to tell them was the truth. “And Allah said, ‘Verily! You cannot make the dead to hear (i.e. benefit them, and similarly the disbelievers) nor can you make the deaf hear. (27.80).
It’s true that the dead cannot hear anything that the living say. Allaah says (interpretation of the meanings):
“..but you cannot make hear those who are in graves” [Faatir 35:22]
And:
“So verily, you (O Muhammad) cannot make the dead to hear” [al-Room 30:52]
With regard to the incident mentioned in the above Ahadith, it is to be understood that this was a unique case, where Allaah brought them back to life so that His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) might rebuke them and humiliate them.
The relevant point here is that Allaah caused the people in the well to hear the words of His Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), so that they might be humiliated. But it is not correct to deduce from this hadeeth that the dead can hear everything, because this applied only to the people in the well. Some scholars made an exception and said that the dead can hear the salaam, but this is a view for which clear sound evidence is lacking.
Wassalam.
Posted on October 13, 2012, in iLook and tagged badr, barzakh, bukhari, death, deceased, funeral, hadith no 1151, hadith no 1152, hear, janaza, prayer, salah, well. Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.
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when i pass a grave i say assalamualaikum ya ahlil qubur but if im sure it is not a believer’s grave maybe i would not say it….because it is mentioned in this article, i am reminded about the evidence hadith which i dont have because i was told by my teacher to say it and i did not remember whether my teacher told the evidence hadith or not
http://islamqa.info/en/ref/12092/passing%20by%20graveyard
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to teach his Sahaabah, when they visited graves, to say, “Al-salaamu ‘alaykum ahl al-diyaar min al-mu’mineen wa’l-Muslimeen, wa innaa in shaa’ Allaah bikum laahiqoon, nas’al Allaaha lana wa lakum al-‘aafiyah (Peace be upon you, O believing and Muslim dwellers of this place. We will join you soon, if Allaah wills. We ask Allaah to keep us and you safe).” (Narrated by Muslim in his Saheeh).
when i visited prophet Muhammad shallallahu ‘alaihi wassalam grave in Madinah, i did not say anything
Go through both these links:
http://islamqa.info/en/ref/26286/visit%20grave%20prophet
http://islamqa.info/en/ref/36812/visit%20grave%20prophet